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Vulnerosophy
1.Welcome drink
2.Starter
3.Main course
4.Dessert
5.Cheese Selection
*dabur Aamla / Hajmola
Welcome Drink
Welcome to world of Vulnerosophy , preferably you can pick this book to read on a weekend while you are waiting for electricity to come so that you can hang in with TV, or by the time your facial gets dried up or you really want to spend time being inquisitively funny & enjoyable read like this.
Have you ever asked yourself - why is that you forget to get take back change after purchasing something? or you might have paid more ? , When you are almost done with your makeup, why you still worry about ear rings - do they match or not..Don’t you?
Why do you go to shower (bath) without taking a towel? or probability that without closing front door you go sleep in living room ? Why do you recheck your Debit card after withdrawing money from ATM, weather it is ink kept back in valet or not?
Why, you always loose a pen by giving it to somebody in ticket counter or in bank? How often your money given as lone has not been returned? Why is that none of your cube mates greet you with a smile at office?
Do you really think you kid makes you shout, angry? Do you really think it is always Hubby / Wifey who triggers the argument? Does your boss has lot of expectations from you, when you are being paid low salary? Has you Valet, Cellphone or bike has got stolen anytime ?
Forget all of the above – Don’t you get a good cup coffee at times when you badly need it ? A bottle of cold water when you are thirsty? Did someone ran to you and gave it ? Or say benne masala dosa from your favorite hotel , Did the waiter ever made sure that your are being served with it timely and properly ?
Anytime have you got more change from a shop? Or you got 100 Rs bill on the road..at least once ?
To any of the above questions if you have nodded your head with affirmation – think a little more you may find explanation or excuses…
Like – I was in a hurry, I am bit unlucky, I forget things, I cant mingle, I am meticulous, It was just a sheer luck , oh that was bad day ..good day etc… all these things can be put in literally respective words, or in psychological , statical terminologies saying – absent mindedness or probability respectively… or say anything to explain or excuse about it.
What ever …. But I say , you are VULNERBLE , yes YOU are, those are your vulnerabilities . It may sound indigestible, but that’s the reason I have named this chapter as welcome drink, to increase your appetite.
By definition - Vulnerability is the susceptibility to physical or emotional injury or attack. It also means to have one's guard down, open to censure or criticism. Vulnerability refers to a person's state of being liable to succumb, as to manipulation, persuasion or temptation - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vulnerability
Little technically - Vulnerability is the intersection of three elements: a system susceptibility or flaw, attacker access to the flaw, and attacker capability to exploit the flaw
So it is evident and you know already that it’s a bad thing , a negative thing as from ages its been thought that way.. , But why am I talking about all, unfortunate things which everyone have faced at least once. But lets look at it with brighter and lighter note and with little funny, happy go lucky angle ..Shouldn’t we ?
In mathematics you might have learnt - (minus) X + ( plus) = - (minus) , Anything multiplied by negative results in negative. Well ..that applies to Maths, Cant we reverse that formula in case of our lives ? Society? Family? Cant we develop immune system in ourselves for the bad vulnerabilities.
Bad vulnerabilities ? then there must be Good vulnerabilities – I guess , I am the first person to invent a phrase Good Vulnerabilities J
Don’t you think there are good vulnerabilities? Which can bring gains, happiness, pleasure , peace to you ? yes, there are will talk about them while I serve you with dessert .
I request the reader not to go by the literal meaning of this word, and take this read in a lighter note, and not to go by analysis on circumstantial bases … else you may loose the fun ( apologies – Jiddu Krishnamurthy Sir , for violating a rule), Since I am much vulnerable to spell vulnerability very wrongly …further in this book It will be refereed as vlnb-lity or vlnbl. Thanks J
I have written this book with 7.5 % criminal brain and Z % X I have , this X factor will be discussed in Starter, don’t jump there it isn’t any gr8 secrete ;).
Hope you will enjoy this read and it is useful ….
Thanks to Reviewers, Friends, Colleagues and Fellow passengers J
